Another update 5-19-26: I am two weeks post surgery, so I am slowly getting life back to where I want it to be. Long story short, I had some huge fibroids that were affecting my quality of life, so I’m thankful I had a wonderful surgeon to remove them. As for books, I did start on my second one last October after a falling out with a friend (things have been repaired though yay); the book is another non fiction one, but this one will focus on helping others recognize and break free from toxic situations based on my experiences with narcissist family members, dangerous ex bf, emotionally abusive childhood bestie and sister, etc. I’ve also learned what attunement is this past year and that is going to be in my book as well because if you attune with someone who doesn’t have a secure attachment style, you could get hurt (I did, but I grew and ended up stronger in the end). Attunement is a beautiful thing, but it’s very powerful. Attunement without boundaries can lead to a lot of confusion and heartache, but with proper understanding and boundaries it is one of the most intimate ways to connect with someone because you both are “seen”. Sidenote, nervous systems are wild because attunement has to do with the NS. Hang on, I’ll have a lot more to share on the NS.

Last year my husband and I also had a life changing thing happen to us that has caused permanent injuries, but I’m not allowed to disclose details until I’m given the go ahead. It was hard on top of all the other things, but I also believe it happened for a reason because I met a lot of people i never would have crossed paths with otherwise. 32 was an intense year but I learned so much about myself, such as confirmation that I’m Autistic and have ADHD. 33 so far is off to a good start with things looking up and my favorite time of the year, pool season, is about to begin. Hopefully soon I’ll get to blogging again, as well as resume writing my surviving abuse memoir. I’ll be in touch take care!

8- 18-25: Sorry to be MIA. A lot has happened this year, both good and bad. There have been some life-changing events, including the addition of two sweet kittens to our family. I will share more about them soon, and I also have some blogs coming up, as well as info on my next book that I will begin writing soon. God bless and talk to you soon 🙂 ~~ August 18th, 2025